When was the last time you reflected on all the good you bring to the lives of others?
When was the last time you patted yourself on the back for getting the kids through another day unscathed, fed, and nurtured?
When was the last time you wrote down all of the things you have accomplished in your life? And, even though you may be thinking there isn’t much to write, I challenge you to consider all the things that don’t necessarily equal monetary gain or accolades. Did you take the initiative to deepen a relationship with a friend or a loved one, perhaps?
2019 has been a year of self-growth and evolution for me. I experienced big shifts that greatly opened up my heart to possibility, my intuition, and experiences that have collectively aided in so much personal growth. I feel as though 2019 was the year a foundation has been laid for a fantastic 2020 ahead.
I want you, too, to experience significant shifts within you. But, we often don’t allow ourselves to think too far ahead and, also, find it challenging to live in the present when we are feeling bogged down by the past. What feels more accurate for you; your past feels like a ball and chain? Or, it feels like a backpack of rocks or a huge boulder you’re carrying?
Regardless of how your past is feeling today, how can you begin to lighten that load? I bet you’re not sure where to start, huh? I know – I’ve been there – and was for many, many years.
2020 can be, no – it will be a fantastic year for you – if you choose it to be so, regardless of your circumstances. Yes, you are that powerful. You can transcend, flip your story around, and elevate your life experience – you absolutely do.
One Step Forward to 2020
Start with the belief that it’s possible. Then, instead of looking at the past and feeling shame, anger, or sadness, find and pick out the parts of you that shined in 2019. Go back to the initial questions above.
Sometimes, our shadow-side feels so much bigger than our light. It’s not who you are – it’s how you treat people. It’s not what you say – it’s what you do. And, I know, if you’re reading this, you’ve done some pretty great things in 2019.
Today, take a moment to celebrate you. I celebrate you. Consider the joy you bring to your dear ones. The humor you may bring to a conversation. The listening ear you give to a friend in need. Or, perhaps it’s merely consciously choosing to be kind to others.
I have a sneaking suspicion that you may not even see your potential. I bet, too, that you learned in childhood that celebrating your wins was anything but humble, and you shouldn’t boast too loudly. Or, that love is won by making someone else proud/happy/insert your word.
Grab a paper and pen and do yourself a favor and celebrate you today – all the things you consider a win that spans your lifetime.
Include all the ways you’ve impacted the lives of others.
When life feels like it’s closing in and it’s feeling a little dark, we must never give up on searching for our own light.
Pain: Both a history teacher and a fortune teller.
What story do you want to tell about yourself next year – or in the next decade?
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P.P.S. Tomorrow, 12/7 at Luminate Studios in Bismarck, ND from 3-4:30, me and two other fab gals are giving a workshop on stress & grief during the holidays. Get your tickets HERE!
P.P.P.S. This Sunday, 12/8, from 2-7 PM, you can find me in Strasburg, ND at Mitch’s Blue Room, where I’ll have a booth set up for a Holiday Vendor Show. I will be offering a very special promotion on all of the group and 1-on-1 programs that day only! So, stop by and see me! If you’re not in the area or able to attend but want to reserve your spot at special pricing, contact me via email at victoria [at] theunleashedheart [dot] com that day between 2-7 PM! I will also have my Young Living Essential Oils there as well.
P.P.P.P.S. One final note: I created a “Resources” page that now has all of the FREE Ebooks under one tab. Enter your details for immediate download. Grab one or grab them all – no problem! I will be adding more info under “Resources” as well – stay tuned!